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The best reason I could think of for you to have children is this: you are a young woman, born into a poor family, in a poor country, and you have decided that you want to migrate to a rich Europen country. This is a perfectly sound intention. While men may have good reasons to live in a Third World country, Europe is a better world for women, no matter what their age and origin.
If, as a young woman in a Third World country, you are indeed planning to migrate to a better world, then it will be best you find yourself a German man and have a child with him, whether you can get a formal marriage or not.
The child will gain Germain citizenship automatically. As the mother of a German child, you have a lifelong right to live in Germany, and to receive support for you and the child until the child is 18. Both, the right of a German child to live in Germany with its mother (regardless of what the nationality of the mother), as well as the right to full economic support, are rigorously enforced.
If you think the above outlined strategy makes sense to you, just contact me (for my email address, please see the page header) . If you are attractive and kind, we can live together for some time. Life will be interesting, as we will travel to many countries. You can see the world, and we can enjoy our life.
Sooner or later, you will conceive. When the child is born, we obtain a German passport for it. I will pay for your and the child's livelihood (no need for goverment enforcement) until the child is 18, as I can afford to do so, very easily.
You can stay in Germany, and you can bring your poor family to Germany, one person after the other. They all can work in Germany, and earn a salary much, much higher than they currently do (if at all, they have work).
Now, what's not included in the deal.
I am not interested in a formal marriage. Just that.
How long we will stay together will depend on how beautiful and kind you are, and how well we get on. If you are lovely, and I truely fall in love with you, we may stay together forever (though as a honest person, I cannot predict this at this time).
But even if we argue, or get bored of each other, and stop living together, I will fulfill my commitment to support you and the child until the child is 18, and you can live in Germany. I can put this in writing if it makes you and your family feel safe.
Anyway, I have no disadvantage from such an arrangement. I like to have children, and I have enough money to pay for any number of them, as well as the mother. I won't be able to take my wealth with me into my grave, so to spend it on children is a sensible thing to do.
I will be a proud, if our son or daughter will later be a lawyer or medical doctor in Germany, or a writer like me. Thus, I am more than willing to finance any education, he or she is intelectually suited for.
So, if you are still interested, please let me know.
Now, your alternatives.
Alternative option A
Marry a local guy, and have children with him. If you live in a poor, non-Muslim country, you will be burdened with a lot of work. You will bring up the children, and maintain the household,and serve your husband. Your life won't be much fun (no traveling to see the world). Sooner or later, your husband will have sex with other women. Anyway, in poor non-Muslim countries, and even in some poor Muslim countries, sex with prostitutes is cheap. After a decade or so, you may be divorced, or, more likely, your husband may just disappear.
If you live in a strict Muslim country, the only difference is that your husband will probably not have sex with prostitutes (unless he flies to other countries for sex holidays). Instead, he will sooner or later take another wife, or two, or three. You may not get divorced, but your life will not be interesting and much fun. Certainly no traveling and seeing the world.
Alternative option B
Be the girlfriend of a young man from a rich local family in a poor country? He will promise you a marrige and then not keep his word. He will make you a baby alright, and later not pay for it. That's how many prostitutes in poor Third World countries started their careers.
Alternative option C
Go for a European man, but insist on a formal marriage. Your chances to make a good catch (an attractive, intelligent, sufficiently wealthy, and not-too-old kind a guy) are very slim.
Younger European men never marry women with whom they have had no previous sexual relationship. So, if you want a younger one, you would have to take chances, sleeping around with foreigners until one thinks you are worth being married.
Anyway, a large number of younger Europeans that come to Third World countries do not know the difference between prostitutes and non-prostitutes (which means that they are pretty stupid, too).
Or you wait for a really ugly older guy of low education who also is quite poor. Because of his ugliness, and his lack of wealth, he has no chance to find a wife in Europe. So he came to your country to find himself a wife. Maybe he did the same in another poor country before meeting you.
So, you get married and your virginity is taken. He says he doesn't want children at this time, only later. He lives in a single room in Europe. He can get you a permit to stay in Europe for one year, and he can extend it on a year-to-year basis.
But when he dies, or simply, when he does not sign the paper again, you do not have the right to stay in Germany, and certainly, you do not have the right to bring other members of your family to Germany to work.
This right, you only gain if you are the mother of a child who has German nationality. A marriage without child doesn't count much in Germany. The one thing that does count is whether you have a child with a German man, and whether the child has a German passport or not.
If you were to end up with one of the described rather stupid younger guys, you will end up with a rather stupid child, as your child will not carry enough genes for intelligence.
Think again about my offer. I am not stupid (otherwise I could not be a writer, and fluent in three languages, and operational in another four); I am 6 feet tall, clever enough to be comfortably wealthy, and honest. So my genes are not the worst.
Anyway you turn it, the offer I made at the onset of this article is a better deal than you can get from most other men, whether they are locals or foreigners. (v*n)
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